WHAT QUALITY DO YOU VALUE MOST IN A FRIEND?

Friendship means a lot of things for me.”A true friend is a silent listener to your every conversation.” He/she doesn’t feel the logical need to give solutions to all your problems.

They just stand for you,no matter what the circumstances they support you. They may not be vocal about it all the time,but it is the action that proves their motives. It’s not necessary they will agree with you all the time,but they will not put you down,correct you in a manner that puts you in bad light. So,what traits should you look for,while you make new friends?

1. DON’T GOSSIP : You heard me right. Someone who loves gossiping is sure to gossip about you too behind your back. You can never be sure,what secrets they will spill about you,If things don’t go their way or they don’t get what they want from you. You can never truly trust such a person. It’s important to find a friend who has your back in your absence. Not a friend who is in with half truths for selfish reasons.

2. NO NONSENSE FRIENDS: Yeah,they are the FRIENDS who will give you an unfiltered feedback, no holding back, they will accept the only best from you and will not allow you to backslide or get lethargic.They are the one’s who encourage you to push your boundaries. To aim for your goals, they will believe in you,even when you are not sure about yourself, Your crazy ideas or plans,they will be all in with you,they won’t poke fun or pass subtle remarks or create confusion. But help you instead,show interest in what you are doing and will be your best ever cheer leaders.

3. FULL ON SARCASM : It’s a big plus,you have humor. In a survey surprisingly it was proved that FRIENDS who share sarcasm go a long way and vibe together ❤ no wonder we love to ” Vibe with our tribe.” It’s impossible to live life without some lighter side to it We all need sunshine in our stressful, busy lives.

4. LOYALTY IS RELIGION : Yup,they have you covered. Don’t we all have that friend or friends who will cover up for us or do our assignments or help us in those tough projects,situations or even mess ups. You know what I mean. If you are lucky to have such amazing and sincere friend or friends never let them go. They might sometimes be mad with you but don’t let them be angry with you forever, reconcile.Consider they are the best. Letting them go will hurt you more than them,because people value such friends, they are those creatures who always have people who want to befriend them for their loving,caring nature.

So,in the end, if I have to say,what quality or qualities I look in a friend, these are the qualities I believe gets you a great friend. Hope you have yours. Friends are the Elixir of life,irrespective their age,gender, caste,creed or class. If you find the rights one,hold them tight. If you enjoyed reading, consider sharing, liking  or subscribing. Have a great week ahead.